In May 1942, Anne wrote to congratulate her cousin Bernd on his seventeenth birthday

A Teenage Life, Interrupted

In May 1942, just weeks before she would go into hiding, Anne Frank wrote a letter to her cousin Bernd on his seventeenth birthday. It’s a message that could have been written by any teenage girl, filled with a familiar mix of casual observations, youthful gossip, and the endless energy of a life lived in a hurry.

Bernd and Stephan, Margot and Anne

“Many happy returns on your birthday,” she begins, a phrase as timeless as the act of celebrating. She reports on her recent holiday, claiming she was “busy every day,” and then quickly pivots to what really mattered to a girl on the cusp of thirteen: boys. She casually mentions that she is “usually escorted home by a young man” and asks after her cousin’s girlfriend. This isn’t the voice of a historical icon; it’s the voice of a young girl navigating crushes and social scenes. She even teases her older sister, Margot, for having a boyfriend who is “even younger than mine.”

The letter is a beautiful, fleeting snapshot of a normal life. Anne’s closing lines, full of hurried excitement, are particularly poignant: “This letter hasn’t turned out to be very long, but I haven’t any time anyway because I’m going with Father to a film show.” This line captures the essence of a happy, busy childhood. She was a girl with a full schedule and a future she was eager to live.

Buddy (Bernd), who was born in Frankfurt in 1925 and grew up in Basel, was Anne’s cousin

The casual, carefree tone of this letter stands in stark contrast to the months that followed. This was a time before her world shrank to a few rooms, before her pen became her only friend, and before she had all the time in the world to write. The girl who had no time to write a long letter because she was off to a movie with her father would soon find herself with nothing but time, and nowhere to go. This letter reminds us that the story of Anne Frank is not just a historical tragedy, but the loss of a vibrant, ordinary teenage life.