The Shared Sacrifice: Margot Frank’s Hope for Anne and Peter in the Annex.

Margot’s Quiet Confession

On March 21, 1944, Margot Frank wrote a letter to her younger sister, Anne, that provides a rare and poignant insight into her inner world. The letter was a response to Anne’s deepening relationship with Peter van Pels. While Anne may have believed Margot was simply being the kind older sister, Margot confessed that she “wasn’t being entirely honest.”

Margot quickly clarified that her feelings were not rooted in typical sisterly jealousy of Anne or Peter, but in a profound sense of personal loneliness: “I’m just sorry I haven’t found anyone with whom to share my thoughts and feelings.” Margot, the quiet, intelligent, and reserved older sister, felt the lack of a confidante deeply, and sadly concluded that she wasn’t “likely to in the near future.”

Despite her own sadness, Margot’s characteristic kindness shone through. She expressed a sincere wish for her sister’s happiness: “I wish, from the bottom of my heart, that you will both be able to place your trust in each other.”

Otto Frank
Margot and Anne, 1941

Her final line is a heartbreaking statement on their confinement: “You’re already missing out on so much here, things other people take for granted.” Margot understood that the simple act of having a close relationship was a priceless gift in the cramped, isolated world of the Secret Annex, a comfort that others outside enjoyed freely. This letter is a testament to Margot’s mature, empathetic, and often overlooked spirit, a girl who carried her own sorrow while genuinely wishing for her sister’s joy.